The most important reason to go vegetarian

“Don’t you miss it?”

This is probably the most common question that a meat-eating person asks me when they find out that I’m vegetarian. And my answer has always been the same. “I don’t miss it AT ALL.” I don’t crave it, I sometimes even feel a bit sick when I smell it.

You see, I became a vegetarian not due to health reasons, religious doctrines, nor even environmental concerns. It was the cruelty, the torture, the killing. It was seeing how animals are treated like they didn’t have feelings, and didn’t deserve any respect, and could only be valued for the food and products that they can provide.

The day I realized how bad the animal industry situation was, was the day I quit eating animal flesh. I did it cold turkey (how apt!). I just couldn’t put another piece of a dead animal in my mouth anymore. That was more than 10 years ago, and it was hands down the best decision I’ve ever made in my life.

I’m not going to pontificate in this post about how eating meat has so many negative health effects and how the livestock industry has risen to be among the top polluters and destroyers of the planet. I’m just going to share with you some of the good things I’ve experienced as a non-meat eater. These can be summarized in three things: 1) The food experience; 2) The health benefits; and 3) The love and peace it brings.

We plant our own organic veggies in our yard using any container we can get our hands on!
We plant our own organic veggies in our yard using any container we can get our hands on!

Firstly, becoming vegetarian has opened up a whole new world of food experiences for me. I’ve learned to be more creative with cooking. I’ve experimented with more flavours and textures. I realized that what was giving any meat dish any flavour, the herbs and spices, were actually all from plants! So why not flavour plants with plants? Why not make burgers, steaks, barbecues out of fruits and vegetables? It’s amazing what you can come up with when you free your tongue from the taste of meat.

And then there’s the concomitant benefits to my health. Like anybody else, I get cough and colds and all the common illnesses that go around. But I believe that I now get them less frequently, and when I do get them, my body now fights them off more easily. I have better skin, I maintain my weight easier, I believe I have more energy than some of my meat-eating teenage students!

And lastly there are the non-tangible things that a cruelty-free lifestyle brings. My spirit feels at peace that I do not have to kill a life just to satisfy a desire. I can express my love to sentient animals without feeling the shame and guilt of making thousands of their kind suffer unimaginable cruelty at the hands of humans. Being a vegetarian has given me another purpose on earth – to help free animals from the pain and suffering.

Eating what you planted and grew yourself makes you more connected to earth and nature.
Eating what you planted and grew yourself makes you more connected to earth and nature.

Many people make fun of vegetarians and vegans. There’s even a fried chicken company that capitalized on this by making a “budgetarian” advert. Being a vegetarian is probably the closest I have to a religion. You know how religious people get offended when their Gods are made fun of? I get offended when people post photos of a live pig and label it “bacon.” It hurts, because doesn’t it literally hurt another sentient being? I’m still learning how to not be affected by people like that who do it out of spite.

So if you are thinking of becoming a vegetarian, I hope you do it for the right reasons. And I believe the best reason are the animals themselves. Any other reason simply won’t make you as committed to the lifestyle. I wish you luck on your journey to finding greater joy in living a meat-free life!

Down The Rabbit Hole: I Will Quit A Stable Job and Pursue My Dream

Have you ever quit a perfectly good job to pursue a crazy dream? That’s just what I’m about to do. I currently have a full-time teaching job at the most prestigious university in the country, and I’m on track for a tenure position — you know, a lifetime of job security and opportunities for career growth.

But in a few months, I am going to turn in my resignation letter. Most people advise me not to quit, while I experiment on doing other things on the side. That way, I’ll find out if I’m cut out for other trades, and still have a fall-back career if I am not. Those are wise words, especially in this day and age when holding a stable job is often more important than owning a house and other properties.

There’s just one little tiny problem about not quitting my job: I am not happy doing it anymore. Call me idealistic, but I dream of doing something that would make me feel like I’m not working. Like in that proverb, “Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.” You see, I don’t have that in my life right now. I want to wake up in the morning and be pumped up to go to work and come home feeling like I’ve been the best I could be on that day, EVERY DAY. Somehow, my present job doesn’t make me feel that way.

Don’t get me wrong, working at the No. 1 university in the land can be very rewarding, challenging, and even fun. I’ve had some of the best experiences in my life throughout my >10 years of service to the university. I’ve worked with the smartest and most driven people you’ll ever get to know. I’ve been inspired by both students and co-workers to achieve great things. How then do I explain my discontent? Is it mid-life crisis? Adult onset ADHD? Pursuit of happiness? Just plain getting older?

Whatever it is, I am following my heart, and diving head first into a sea of uncertainty. It’s maybe the craziest thing I’ll ever do in my life. I simply won’t have the courage to pursue my dreams and passions without the people who love and support me. They let me be crazy and still love me. I am super grateful that I have them in my life!

So, I shall quit the only job I’ve ever known, and jump into the rabbit hole. With some luck, I’ll be able to pursue my childhood dream and even make a living out of it. I invite you to come and see what I will discover inside!